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Words matter especially when they shape how we understand family, identity, and belonging. For families built through donor conception, the language used to describe a sperm donor can feel surprisingly emotional. Should you say “donor”? “Donor dad”? “Biological father”? Or something else entirely? Parents often ask us: What’s the “right” word? And what will help my child feel secure, loved, and grounded in their story? Let’s talk about why this language can feel complicated, and how families...

Conversations about donor conception have evolved dramatically over the past decade. What once centered mainly on health screenings and basic donor profiles now includes questions about AI tools, expanded genetic testing, and the ethical responsibilities that come with more information than ever before. We see firsthand how quickly the landscape is changing and how overwhelming it can feel for patients who are simply trying to make the best choice for their future family. The good news? With...

When people think about sperm banking, the conversation often gets pulled in two directions: the deeply personal hopes of families who turn to it as part of their path to parenthood, and the ethical questions raised by using donor gametes in the first place. At Seattle Sperm Bank, we believe those two conversations belong together. The science and logistics matter, but so do the values, compassion, and ethical frameworks that guide every step of our work. Ethics, for us, isn’t an afterthought....

When people hear about sperm donation, one critique often surfaces: “Isn’t this just playing God?” We hear this question not as criticism, but as an opportunity to explain what donor conception really is, and what it isn’t. The truth is that choosing a sperm donor is not about unnaturally controlling life. It’s about providing safe, medically responsible options for people who need them. It’s about giving families the chance to plan for a child with care, intention, and love. Far from being...